Vadodara: When Dara Hakim,89,a former Indian Navy
deep-sea diver and prominent member of Vadodaras Parsi community passed
away recently,his family chose cremation for his last rites.
Though
he did not leave any specific instructions,his wife Roda Hakim arranged
for a cremation instead of the traditional Tower of Silence.With the
vulture population dwindling in Vadodara,many in this community are
preferring cremation as the final rite for their loved ones.
The priest from the local fire temple
came to the Hakims home for prayers before the body was taken to
Karelibaug crematorium.I just knew that he would wish to be cremated,
said Roda.
Parsi Tower Of Silence Pictures
Zoroastrian Dakhmeh “Tower of Silence” near Manshad, Yazd Iran
The first woman photo-journalist of the country,Homai
Vyarawalla too had left unambiguous instructions with her lawyer about
her desire to be cremated.
The Modi family,which owns the popular
confectionaries store and restaurant in the city,had cremated their
matriarch,Roshan Modi,after she wished for the same,last year.The oldest
cremation that the community members recall is that of Dr Rustom
Cama,father of Boman Cama,who now heads the Vadodara Parsi panchayat,in
the 1980s.It is individual choice.The Parsi panchayat has never formally
discussed the topic.The families are free to take a decision, says Jal
Patel,the immediate past president of the panchayat.Some families have
opted for cremation in the past,although the majority still prefer the
Tower of Silence, he adds.
The community members also welcome this
liberal approach of the clergy and community elders.Everyone realizes
that the decision to cremate does not mean moving away from our
tradition,its a very practical solution to a raging problem, explain
Modi.
Nikitin Contractor,who hails from one of the oldest Parsi
families of Vadodara,says,I dont think there is anything wrong with
cremation.Parsis can also go for burial,like J R D Tata did.
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